I realized that matrimonial sites happen to be a great hit. According to the matrimonial site, Sneha is registered to, there are 4000 Marathi men currently who want to get married. I find that pretty surprising. When it comes to the virtual world there are 4000 men who want to get married and in the real world there are actually relatively few. Why do these sites get such a great response? I guess its because we live in busy times, we prefer a friends birthday party rather than a relative’s house warming party. We are too busy with our own lives and problems. Given the amount of divorces happening around every year, our well wishers and relatives tend to be weary of suggesting bride and grooms to each other. I mean who will take the risk and the blame? Also it is the Internet revolution, you can get anything from a pair of chaddis to a would be life partner, quite literally.
Sneha continued, ” I know these sites are doing a great service to the nation and mankind in all. Although they really lack originality. They are a total copy of Facebook. I mean if Mark Zuckerberg decides to sue them I will be on his side. Just like there is ‘send a friend quest’ button on Facebook, there is ‘ I am interested in marrying you button’ on the site. You can chat, send each other messages and the bonus is your parents will approve of the amount of time you spend on it, unlike Facebook.”
Sneha sipped her coffee, “You know me Aditi. I love to fall in love and any which way I am quite a flop on the website. My mother has send across at least 10 requests to men on an average and I have got just about, 5, ” I am interested in marrying you requests” all rejected by my mother, fortunately even before they reached me. Out of the 10 men, 5 have not responded, the other ten have rejected me by saying,
” She is not tall enough.”
” She is not fair enough.”
” She is just a B.A graduate!”
” We are sorry, the kundali doesn’t match!”
I personally find these sites absolutely unfair. I mean how can you judge a person on the colour of his skin, his height, how many flats he own, his education or salary. I mean a man with a Harvard degree and a penthouse could make a very bad husband and a painter who earns ten thousand bucks every month could be a classic husband. I find it very strange when men and women reject each other just on material grounds or physical appearance.What about the heart, what lies inside? I find it amusing and rude to reject a guy because he doesn’t have hair on his head or a flat in Pune. Needless to say I am not a fan of these sites.
Sneha continued,” I just sometimes want to tell all the lakhs of men and women on these sites , don’t let a website decide your worth. Be proud if your dark,be proud if you are fair, be happy if you are 5.3 feet tall, be happy if you are 6 feet tall. Be proud if you are a doctor and even prouder if you are a sportsperson.”
“Sneha I have no doubts in my mind that you will fall in love with a great guy. After a while the great guy will go down on his knees, with complete confusion and fear in his mind and say, “You complete me. Will you marry me?” and you will say, ” Shut up just shut up, you had me at hello!” and you, him and your worried mother will live happily ever after!”
4 thoughts on “Shaadi Dot Com”
Perfect 🙂 I completely agree with you aditi,
Sneha will get a perfect match, This things is not only about the girls but even the same about the boys, My friend Nachiket is perfect guy, he do the trekking,father expired , he and his mother and pretty cute dog lives in a chinchwad, many girls refused by just saying he don't earn more, we want live separate and many more, the examples are many more.
when many people rejects us by giving stupid reason then there is chances of frustration to family as well as to the person.,
Just we have to remember, Life is beautiful ” only johri can understand the value of real diamond ” so we are the diamond…In my own life, I have huge respect to the sportsperson, I was the best in kabbadi in my college life, but in one match my ligament got teared, from that day i stopped to play, but I started martial arts, I can not stop sports from my life and I will try my best to marry a sports girl.
Again best writing aditi, keep it up. I hope my English not spoiling your blogs.
Keep it up.
dont worry about the english! as long as i understand its good enough. you dont have to try your best to marry a sportsperson! all i want to say is marry the person you love and respect. Her profession shouldn't be the only criteria!
Yes, what you said is correct, her profession shouldn't be the only criteria, and yes not only LOVE but RESPECT also the most important part of any relationship, without respect we can not make a bridge of relation, actually I have a lot of respect about you.
Aditi I can say one thing…you are a good sportsperson as well as a nice writer too and by reading your blogs i can say you are very nice from your heart too..
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